Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
Today is a day where many people cling to all the warm, fuzzy, and/or simply things we can be thankful for… shelter, freedom, food, family, friends, job, health, hobbies, education, warmth, pets, bacon…
And while it is completely legitimate and appropriate to express thanks for these things… I want you to try to do something a bit unorthodox this year. See, we tend to focus on the simple pleasures of life to distract us from the big, elephant-in-the-room struggles we are undoubtedly facing. Let’s be honest. Just because it is Thanksgiving, it does not mean that all your problems magically went away… they are still there. Many of you are pushing them down today and here I am stirring them up!
Let them come up.
And don’t only let them come up…
BE THANKFUL FOR THEM.
Eh?! Now perhaps some of you have thought… well sure, down the road, these struggles will prove to have some purpose and I will be thankful for it at some point! I commend you on your forward thinking, and don’t disagree that this can be your result in time… BUT… that is not what I’m actually asking.
Honestly, what I’m asking is something that I am struggling to do just as much as you will be struggling to do it too! Be thankful for your current struggles, woes, and set backs…NOW. Don’t try to figure it out later. Seek the good in it now. What is it revealing to you? What are you able to learn about yourself or someone else through this? What have you gained? What have you been able to free yourself from? What next step is now possible?
Being thankful for our trials and hardships is not just about looking back and being thankful for going through it… but being thankful in the midst of it!
Comment below with your hardship and why you are thankful for it.
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